I will not sacrifice my body for your feelings
If refusing to make myself horribly sick makes me a bigot, then I am proud to be a bigot.
I have a sensitive stomach. It is much better than it was 20 years ago, but I still need to think about what I consume. Because of this, there have been many times in my life where I have asked for a smaller piece of dessert - cake, pie, whatever.
This is not because I care about the calories, but because I am approaching being full and do not want to over-consume and make myself sick. I have done that before, and it is a miserable experience. I am not going to eat the entire thing anyway and there is no sense in wasting a larger portion when someone else could eat it. But according to an "expert" with the San Francisco Health Department, I am obligated to take the bigger piece anyway.
So in order spare the precious little feelings of snowflake "fat acceptance" activists, I am obligated to either be overfilled and puke, or be horribly nauseated for hours while I wait for my stomach to digest after eating too much. This is not a hyperbolic description of my reality. The latter has happened to me many times, because I was foolish and stupid.
Let me be very clear: I do not care about your feelings. I will NOT make myself sick so you do not feel embarrassed or "shamed" by me eating less than you. Your feelings are not more important than my physical health and I will NOT sacrifice my body for your emotions.
This is one of the reasons why there is a backlash against "wokeness," because too many "woke" people want to micromanage every aspect of your life. They want to micromanage our language and hair styles, and an innocent mispronunciation of someone's name is considered "violence." I am supposed to make myself horribly sick in order to avoid "fatphobic" bigotry. In this case, wokeness is literally poison.
This is why I describe "wokeness" as a cult. But I reject this cult and the "god" they worship. If protecting my physical health means I have "sinned," then I am proud to be a heretic and a blasphemer. I reject your "god" and I will never repent of my heresy and blasphemy. If refusing to make myself horribly sick makes me a bigot, then I am proud to be a bigot. I will take these accusations and labels with pride.