We really need to do better at respecting our elders. Scripture is clear on this matter, commanding respect for our elders in Leviticus 19:32, 1 Peter 5:5 and 1 Timothy 5:1-2. This does not mean that we cannot disagree with those who are older than us - we all do - but that we should be respectful in that disagreement.
This is most commonly seen in disrespect of Baby Boomers any time they make an argument. Instead of making an argument, the Cult of Youth will simply roll their eyes and say "OK Boomer," as if being born between 1946 and 1964 makes the opinion invalid no matter the statistical data or logic presented. Instead of an appeal to authority, it is an appeal to ignorance.
But even when we have a substantive disagreement with an older person, here is something those of us who are younger than Boomers should consider: Maybe we are wrong. Maybe people who have been around the block a few more times than we have actually do have some wisdom than we do not, garnered from being around for decades before we were born.
In many ways the world has changed a lot, especially culturally. The dating landscape for young men today, with dating apps and other things, is very different than it was even for Generation X. I communicated with my then-girlfriend via e-mail when we were dating, but we got to know each other in person. We have been married for 25 years. Other than e-mail, It was much the same as it was for my older siblings, who are all Boomers. Older generations giving advice often do not realize how different it is today, especially for the youngest Millennials and Gen Z.
But while there are many things that have changed, one thing that has not changed is human nature. The means of communication, the cultural expectations, and the labor market are always evolving, but men and women are the same as they were 50, 500, and 5000 years ago. We all carry the same temptations and weaknesses that all of our ancestors did. That is why it is wise to listen to people who have been observing other people for a lot longer than we have. This is especially true for people in the Church.
For younger people, it is not going to hurt you to listen respectfully to an older person's perspective. You are free to make your own choices and have your own opinions, but true wisdom comes from considering a variety of perspectives. Considering something you disagree with and the reasons you disagree with it might even improve your own argument. It is certainly better than following the Cult of Youth, which never ends well for anyone.
"OK Boomer" and respecting your elders
Young people could benefit from listening to people with decades of experience.
